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Brutally Honest Advice for Young Men
There’s a lot of bad advice online for young men. Most of it is fluffy, vague, or flat-out wrong.
I’ve worked with thousands of young men through my programs and mentorship. I’ve seen firsthand that success comes down to principles that aren’t always popular, but they work.
If you’re serious about building an extraordinary life, this is the raw, unfiltered advice you need.
1. Take Full Responsibility for Your Life
Stop waiting for someone else to hand you opportunities. Employers, investors, mentors… they want proof you’ve already done the work.
Action steps:
Build skills before asking for money.
Document your progress. Share proof of execution.
Replace entitlement with ownership.
You have to take control of your life and do the work before anybody’s going to pay you for the work.
2. Do What’s Unpopular
If you want extraordinary results, stop living like everyone else. Average choices equal average results.
Examples:
Skip the weekend parties, double down on your craft.
Trade hours of TV for hours in the gym or building your business.
Embrace judgment. Standing out always looks strange at first.
The extra mile is empty. That’s your opportunity.
There’s no way that you’re going to be somebody that stands out by not doing things that stand out.
3. Begin With the End in Mind
Without a vision, you’ll drift. Most adults don’t know why they do what they do. And that’s why they stay stuck.
Quick framework to design your aim:
| Area of Life | Example Vision |
|---|---|
| Career | Run a 7-figure software business |
| Family | Married, 2 kids, living in Austin |
| Lifestyle | Travel twice a year internationally |
Your aim doesn’t need to be perfect. It needs to be written.
Having direction is the right move to be successful. It actually doesn’t matter what it is. It’s that you have it.
4. Stop Asking Your Parents for Advice
Your parents love you, but love and strategy are not the same thing. If you want to do something they’ve never done, they can’t give you the blueprint.
Better approach:
Respect their intentions, but filter their advice.
Seek mentors who’ve already done what you want.
Learn how to approach strangers and ask for guidance.
If you want to do something I haven’t done, don’t ask me for advice. It’s the wrong strategy.
5. Win First, Then Tell Your Story
Nobody cares about your story until you’ve built results people can’t ignore. Talk is cheap, proof is priceless.
How to stack credibility:
Go all-in on execution.
Track wins in measurable terms.
Share lessons after you’ve earned the right.
Nobody’s going to care about you, your story, what you’ve done, until you win so big people can’t ignore you.
6. Do What’s Hard for an Easy Life
The shortcut is never a shortcut. Hard choices now equal freedom later.
Two types of pressure:
Eustress: self-chosen challenges like workouts or launching a business.
Distress: unexpected setbacks you’re unprepared for.
By choosing hard now, you build resilience for when life hits you with hard later.
If you want your life to be easy, do what’s hard. If you want your life to be hard, do what’s easy.
7. Own Your Happiness
If you rely on others to validate your journey, you’ll always be stuck. Success starts with emotional independence.
Shift your mindset:
Stop waiting for people to understand or support you.
Become the lighthouse. Consistent proof over time changes perceptions.
Let your results speak louder than your arguments.
If I can get to a place where nobody has to change for me to win, then I win every time.
8. Stop Wasting Time
Time is the one resource you can’t replenish. Motivation videos aren’t progress. Execution is.
Do this today:
Audit your calendar weekly.
Cut vices, distractions, and “motivation porn.”
Measure output, not input.
Treat your time like gold. Spend it with people that inspire you and do the work.
9. Invest in Your Skill Set
The world rewards value. To get ahead, you must create something remarkable.
Three layers of skills to build:
Core skill – the craft that produces real value (coding, sales, design).
Amplifiers – soft skills like communication and emotional intelligence.
Multipliers – marketing, networking, and leadership.
If nobody is impressed with your work, it’s not there yet.
10. Work Harder on Yourself Than Your Job
Jobs come and go. The skills you build compound forever.
Focus areas:
Health and fitness.
Communication and leadership.
Productivity and stress management.
Personal development is way more important than personnel development.
11. Know Your Strengths and Weaknesses
Be brutally honest with yourself. Double down where you’re strong, and delegate or trade support for the rest.
Tactical steps:
List 3 strengths and 3 weaknesses.
Ask friends or mentors for feedback.
Design your environment around strengths.
Developing something you’re good at is ten times easier than trying to get good at something you suck at.
12. Stop Being So Critical of Yourself
Negative self-talk kills momentum. Focus on what you control, not imagined criticism.
Replace rumination with action.
Assume most things people say aren’t about you.
Keep your eyes forward, not stuck in the past.
If you’re in your head, you’re dead.
13. Don’t Compare Your Level 1 to Someone Else’s Level 23
You’re running your own race. Comparing your early chapter to someone else’s highlight reel is a trap.
Reframe comparison:
Identify your “entrepreneurial age.”
Focus only on beating your yesterday self.
Play the long game. Consistency compounds.
I don’t compare my journey at whatever level I’m at to somebody else’s further along. I focus on me.
Build the Life You Want
This advice is simple, not easy. But that’s the point. Success is built on taking ownership, choosing the hard path, and staying consistent.
Don’t wait for permission. Start today, stack small wins, and create proof that no one can ignore.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the most important life principles young men should follow?
The most important life principles for young men include taking full responsibility for their lives, focusing on self-improvement, doing hard things to build resilience, avoiding time-wasting habits, and developing valuable skills. These success principles are timeless because they help young men build discipline, confidence, and long-term vision for their future.
Why should young men stop asking their parents for advice about success?
Young men should stop asking their parents for advice about success because most parents can only give advice based on the life they have lived, which may not align with the bigger goals their children have. Instead, finding mentors or successful people in the field they want to pursue gives more practical and proven guidance.
How can young men avoid wasting time and stay productive?
Young men can avoid wasting time by cutting out vices like excessive social media, binge-watching, or addictions to motivational content that do not lead to real results. Staying productive means tracking where time is spent, setting measurable goals, and replacing consumption with action that actually moves life forward.
What does it mean to do what is unpopular and why is it important?
Doing what is unpopular means making choices that most peers avoid, such as skipping parties to build skills, prioritizing fitness, or focusing on long-term goals over instant gratification. It is important because following the crowd rarely leads to extraordinary results, while going against the norm creates differentiation and long-term opportunities.
Why is developing high-value skills critical for young men?
Developing high-value skills is critical for young men because the world rewards people who create value through expertise and mastery. Learning both hard skills, like programming or sales, and soft skills, like communication and emotional intelligence, ensures long-term success and makes them competitive in any career path.
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(00:00) there’s a lot of bad advice out there for men on the internet and it frustrates me because being the father of two boys and running one of the largest youth programs for young men in my city I’ve seen the results of every kid being one caring adult away from becoming a success story so I’m going to explain principles although some are controversial that are important for any young man to understand number one is you’re responsible for your life no one’s going to do it for you no one’s coming to save you no one’s going to
(00:25) give you anything you work or you suffer it’s your reality I have a lot of kids 18 to 20 year olds that are reaching out messaging me asking me for a job but they never ask themselves maybe I should do the job first maybe I should present my skills maybe I should be an example of what I’m doing it’s almost like they want me to save them you have to take control of your life and do the work before anybody’s going to pay you for the work I think most kids are taught this in school they’re taught if I can just show up sit in a classroom not even
(00:58) do the work I’ll get a passing grade there’s this new rule I found out in one of my kids’ schools they don’t fail kids anymore it’s like not a thing they do they’ll give them extra support they’ll keep them around for the summer but they don’t fail kids anymore and then they come into the job market wondering how is my employer going to train me up and give me all the skills that I need to do the work if you want to be in sales if you want to be a video editor if you want to be a marketer go learn the skills show that you’ve got it you can
(01:25) do it if you think somebody else is going to do it for you you’re missing the plot now before we move on to number two we’ve got a goal as a team to hit 500,000 Subs so if you haven’t already click subscribe it only takes a second which brings us to number two which is do what’s unpopular if you want an extraordinary life you need to be extra it’s very simple for me whatever your friends are doing you have to do the opposite it sounds crazy but if your friends are going out on weekends do the opposite if your friends drink all the
(01:55) time do the opposite if everyone around you is watching TV after school instead of working on bettering themselves do the opposite there’s no way that you’re going to be somebody that stands out by not doing things that stand out so if you look around and everybody’s doing the same thing you’re doing it wrong it reminds me of this quote which is that the extra mile is often empty because very few people are willing to do it it’s your opportunity to differentiate yourself if you want a life that’s different than everybody else’s your
(02:23) parents the people at school your friends honestly you have to act different you have to make different choices which is the premise of doing something that’s hard because you’re going to go against what is the norm people are going to judge you for it but that’s actually the right way to go and eventually you’ll find people that are also doing it and it makes it less lonely but at first you have to be willing to do things that other people will not understand people shy away from it because it requires you to feel
(02:49) lonely it requires you to feel confused you’re like I hope this works out think about going to the gym like if you’re tracking your Macros if you’re tracking your training and you’re being disciplined and you don’t miss what you committed to which nobody does you’re going to have results very few people have Life Works exact same way which brings us to number three which is begin with the end in mind in the book thinking Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill the first chapter is all about having an aim a focus a target a primary aim something
(03:21) that is so clear that when I wake up I know did I make progress towards that the truth is is most adults do not have a vision for their life life they don’t even have a vision for their weak they don’t even know why they do what they do if you want to separate yourself then choose to have an aim and again you’re going to be like well I don’t know what it is it actually doesn’t matter what it is it’s that you have it so take 15 minutes and write it out think about the city you want to live in the family you want to have in the future the lifestyle
(03:50) you want to live where do you want to travel Dream a Little Bit give yourself permission to write things on there that actually scare you that freak you out that you have zero idea how you’re going to do trust having direction is the right move to be successful and for those that like really feel stuck and you’re like I don’t know if I could do this my only question to you is has anybody in your circumstance ever made it if anybody in your city that looks like you and maybe not even in City maybe just somebody in your specific
(04:19) situation if they’ve ever made it that’s proof that you can do it as well use that to build the confidence use that to learn how they did it go find it I remember one time I woke woke up and I was like who are the successful people in my state and I found out there were three billionaires that lived in my state all of them when I reached out to them took my call all of them they weren’t on Instagram they were hardly in the news and it took some work that to me is your opportunity most people that have had success the reason why is
(04:48) because they came from a place that was so bad that they had to work so hard to become a little bit of a success story a little bit more a little bit more they’ve been doing it for so long that you see them today and you’re like impressed but it’s just because they’ve been at it for decades which brings us to number four which is stop asking your parents for advice it’s a flawed strategy and I love you parents I know that your intentions are to love on your kids and be the best role models for them but the truth is there’s a good
(05:14) chance that you watching this or if you’re a parent your kids want more than they’ve experienced in their current life and the fact is it’s unlikely that your parents will be able to give you the right strategies the right advice to get there because if they did they’d have it instead they’re going to give you the exact same advice that they would use to get the life they have which is not what you want and I know that sounds harsh but stop caring about what your parents think your parents just don’t want to see you hurt they
(05:40) don’t want to see you fall off that bike they don’t want to see you kicked out of University they don’t want to see your heart broken so they try to protect you it’s natural trust me I have two boys I’ll probably do the same thing to them but I’ve told them from the beginning if you want to do something I haven’t done don’t ask me for advice it’s the wrong strategy I will help you find those people I will put you in a position to talk to those people but anytime you hear me giving you advice it’s flawed cuz I’ve never done that thing so for
(06:05) example my son wanted to start editing videos I was like dude go talk to somebody on my media team like I’m not the person talk to Sam talk to Nick go learn the skill of approaching a stranger and asking them for advice because the reason why we turn to our parents is because they’ll always give us advice that’s easy life of success requires you to do hard things so don’t take the easy route especially when it’s for big things like what university should I go to should I start a business what should that business be you want to
(06:33) get around people that have been there done it and they can give you the blueprint and it makes it easy and best of all gives you the confidence which brings us to number five which is no one cares about your story until you win so go win when I left rehab after being there for 11 months and being a complete failure up until that point at 17 years old I had one mission to go Inn so big that all the doubters couldn’t doubt me because at first I wanted to tell everybody how incredible sobriety was I wanted everybody to listen to me and the
(07:03) truth was is I hadn’t done anything and it made me mad but could I really blame them why would they listen to me I hadn’t done anything cuz I’ve been sober for a few months like that’s not impressive some of us get frustrated because people don’t believe in our dreams they don’t believe in our potential they are so negative about what we’ve done we’re trying to tell our story we’re trying to teach other people how we’ve had a little bit of success and we get upset but you haven’t done anything yet go win it’s it’s right or
(07:31) wrong it doesn’t matter nobody’s going to care about you your story what you’ve done until you win so big people can’t ignore you which brings us to number six which is do what’s hard for an easy life there’s a quote by Les Brown that says if you want your life to be hard do what easy if you want your life to be easy do what hard most young people are trying to do things that feel right that are easy the problem with that is that there’s no reward on the other side of it because if it was easy easy everybody
(08:01) would do it the concept of delayed gratification is the idea of being willing to be consistent for long periods of time without ever seeing proof that what you’re after is materializing it’s like going to the gym you got to choose your heart go to the gym choose your heart develop your muscles those muscles have to come on the backside of you pushing yourself when everything in your body says stop you keep pushing you know in life there’s this thing called UST stress and distress UST stress is you deciding to
(08:28) create an environment where you’re pushing yourself longdistance running working out starting your business distress is when the world happens to you and your perspective is that’s not fair I can’t believe this person or this situation happened see the more we put ourselves in a position to do hard when hard happens to us it’s easier it’s such a massive idea most adults don’t get this but I want to ask you how much can you sacrifice for tomorrow how much are you willing to delay how much are you willing to put P can you dedicate
(09:01) yourself to a thousand days of being better it’s less than 3 years but you’d be surprised on the other side of that commitment how different your life would look which brings us to number seven which is don’t rely on others for your happiness you know when I started trying to get my fitness together I was frustrated because people around me didn’t really support me but I I honestly couldn’t blame them because I didn’t have proof of being consistent it was yet another fad diet another challenge another race and I used to get
(09:30) mad because how could the people that love me the most not support me in something that was going to improve my life and then I realized this if I could get to a place where nobody has to change for me to win then all of a sudden I won’t be emotionally distraught if those people didn’t support me and how crazy is that if I can get to a place where I’m like I understand why they don’t support me but I’m okay with it and it doesn’t affect me and that philosophy allowed me to not only get in the best shape of my life absolutely
(10:01) shredded and jacked and working on being even better I did it in a way where I didn’t create emotional shrapnel for people around me there was no arguments with other people there was no debating my position I just decided to do me and The more I’ve shared this with other young men and just said look I get that you don’t feel supported by your parents here’s the reality nobody has to change for you to win they don’t have to change thems they don’t have to understand who you are they don’t have to support you
(10:28) you can go out there there and be the example because here’s what I’ve learned when we’re the lighthouse when we are the example of what’s possible and we can do that for long periods of times those people that judged us that didn’t support us they eventually become our biggest fans and when they’re ready they’re going to turn to you for advice may never happen but the day it does it’ll change your life what’s funny for me is when I started to try to be successful I kept looking for the easy thing the first time I started a company
(10:58) I wanted the bank to finance I wanted employees to come and help me I wanted my family to understand and maybe even help out but unfortunately they didn’t and I realized that I was always looking for easy when the truth was is the work was the work the work instilled the worth in me to develop the skills to become more that was actually the big unlock on the other side of that I knew that I didn’t need anything else to become more successful which brings us to number eight which is stop wasting your time when it’s the only thing you
(11:28) have this one is going to be controver IAL because you might be thinking well I’m doing the thing I’m supposed to be doing I’m watching this video I’m motivating myself I’m reading my books look vaping porn addiction vices drinking smoking all that stuff yeah stop that hanging out with people you shouldn’t to yeah stop that that’s the easy stuff I actually think some people are addicted to motivation porn I think some of you just sit here on YouTube and watch a bunch of content to try to get going but instead of doing the work so
(11:56) your time is limited you don’t need 6 hours of podcast you don’t need to buy another thing you need to do the work you need to push your life forward you have to sit down and measure you have to look at your calendar and go where am I spending my time I wasted a decade of my life doing things that didn’t actually make anything better because I was trying to not feel not be honest with myself not do the work there was no improvement in my life and some of you guys might say well that but it sounds like fun until you reflect on it and go
(12:29) yes that was wasteful the addiction of being addicted to motivation and shelf hel is because it feels good and it feels right but if you’re honest with yourself it’s not moving anything forward waking up early tomorrow morning and attacking your work will always do more good for you than waking up early and scrolling motivational Tick Tock or Instagram cuz that’s just you lying to yourself that’s you saying well I’m learning and I’m using my car for Education all things I’ve told you but not to the extreme not to the point
(13:04) where hours go by and nothing got done treat your time like gold spend it with people that inspire you and do the work use it to provide value to other people because in doing so it’s going to come back which brings us to number nine which is become obsessed with investing in your skill set the world rewards value you have to create value in the world I got lucky when I was 17 I discovered computer programming and I did nothing else than write code and build software for 5 years heads down became my new Addiction but looking back
(13:39) I think a lot of it was just distraction because it’s not just about the high value skill even though you got to go in and become a master at it you also need to get around other people you also have to understand marketing you also need to learn how to talk you need to communicate instead of writing code 16 hours a day could I have done 10 hours and 6 hours of other soft skills work on my emotional intelligence could I have gotten a lot further 100% but what I know is you have to do things and get to a place where it’s remarkable other
(14:09) people have to remark on how good it is if nobody is impressed with your work it’s not there yet you can tell yourself your friends can tell you but I’m talking about a stranger saying what you just did is impressive and also invest that time in learning the other skills that amplify the core what I would recommend you do today is when you start just decide to be the best in the world I know even saying that for a lot of people like confus them it’s like but I’m just a kid how can I be the best in the world like the best in the world are
(14:36) these people and this person this person I follow I get it and I’ll get to that in another point but just the decision and the focus back to the primary aim that’s how we become great that’s how we become extraordinary it’s how we become remarkable so make the decision even if you have no proof and push forward what’s crazy is that the difference between good and great is often times like only an extra 10 or 15% % more if you think about it it’s the difference between losing weight or not losing weight by giving up your weekend you can
(15:04) go Monday to Friday and eat really well and then Saturday Sunday give away all your gains because you ate bad you could show up and do all the work but miss that last 10 15% and not get the result it’s interesting that it’s such a little bit of extra effort that could mean two or three times more opportunity in your future which brings us to number 10 which is work harder on yourself than you do at your job now I know you don’t want to get fired but I tell my team this all all the time because I understand the truth in it all if they
(15:32) work harder on themselves than they do on the job it turns out they’ll be better at the job and the cool part about this is that it’s selfish they want to be better they want to improve they want to grow they’ll be able to do that because their improvements help their job but it also helps their future personal development is way more important than Personnel development you think your boss is going to send you away on training and that’s going to make you better learning how to be more productive learning how to use your
(16:00) calendar right learning how to write things down to prioritize a list of tasks toward your goal that is awesome that will make you better because if you work on yourself and become better it will make you better at your job your energy your Fitness your communication skills your ability to manage stress all of these skills that make you better will make you better at your job which brings us to number 11 which is understand what you’re good at and what you suck at when when I was young I thought I was great at coding actually
(16:32) because I didn’t talk to people I didn’t get any feedback from anybody if I was good and then I started in business and it was really tough because I wasn’t that great at coding which meant my code was buggy and I wasn’t good at the other skills that were required to actually grow the business so I decided to actually focus on marketing and sales and I hired people that were better at me at my weakness which was code which is kind of funny cuz it’s a thing that I fell in love with but I had to be honest with myself rule number one of improving
(16:58) yourself in life is know your strengths what are you good at what are you above average than anybody else and then also know your weaknesses what are the things that you’re not good at that you don’t enjoy doing that you suck at and try to find people that play at the things you work at use that concept to your advantage get on a team where you fill a hole that they need and they’re helping and supporting you in a way that’s just Unstoppable and stop avoiding what you’re bad at the worst thing you could do is not be honest with yourself and
(17:27) put yourself in a position where through Brute Force you could probably kind of stick around and be somewhat successful but hate it the whole time get feedback be honest with yourself invest in the things that you’re great at cuz that’s way easier and just mitigate the downside of your weaknesses and you don’t have to hire people you can just find friends and ask them for favors you know like I hate doing bookkeeping I have a friend that’s an accountant hey could you do my books you don’t like doing marketing that’s easy for me let
(17:54) me write you your Facebook ads and like just bartering trading being around people that support like that it’s an unfair Advantage for you the reason you should double down on your strength is developing something you’re good at is 10 times easier than trying to get good at something you suck at and don’t want to get good at you can do it I mean most people can develop and grow it’s just to get good at it the effort isn’t worth the squeeze because if you do it right you shouldn’t be putting yourself in positions where you’re not going to be
(18:22) able to succeed all the people you follow on social media were smart enough to find people to support them period full stop you may not know who they are but I guarantee that they have a team and they might have really senior people other people that could even run their company that they partnered with to be able to allow them to go shine their light doing the thing that they do better than anybody else in the world so that the other person could take care of all the areas that they’re weak at but make sure it doesn’t become a problem
(18:49) which brings us to number 12 which is stop being so critical of yourself I’ve got this guy on my team and it’s hilarious because no matter what somebody says or posts on Instagram or shares anonymously he defaults to thinking it’s about him and it gets him into a headspace where he has a negative downward spiral and until somebody stops him or has a conversation with him or he shares it out loud he will allow himself to go into a dark place and the crazy part is is nobody’s ever said anything about him he’s the nicest guy he’s so
(19:20) smart yet he just believes that all the bad stuff that people are talking about might be directed towards him in life we can easily put ourselves in a negative spot by focusing on something negative and it’s called ruminating where you’ve had something happen to you weeks ago when you think about it it makes you feel bad makes you feel sad it makes you feel less about yourself and it’s all up to you to decide what you want to focus on so lift your head stop looking at your feet eyes up on the horizon stop looking down realize that 99% of stuff
(19:52) that happens out there even if you were involved is not about you it’s about the other person and the stories they tell themselves so Tony Robin said this thing all the time if you’re in your head you’re dead it’s not about you get out of your head focus on how awesome you are and get back to work which brings us to number 13 which is don’t compare your level one to somebody else’s level 23 back when I started I would see all these young entrepreneurs further along to me sold their company for 100 million at 23 this other person super successful
(20:21) and here I am comparing myself to these other entrepreneurs going man I’m must suck I am so slow why am I not figuring this out fast master and I was beating myself up or I’d see this person on the internet that’s 35 that’s way way way further ahead of me and then I heard somebody say once they said you got to understand that in business there’s entrepreneurial ages and there’s some people their AG is 1 years old and other people they’re 15 and when you start off it doesn’t matter how old you are but if you’re starting off young and this is
(20:49) your first year at it you got to understand you’re at year one of your entrepreneural age and if you’re comparing yourself to somebody else that might be similar age or a few years ahead of you but started 15 years ago then you’re comparing your age one to their age 15 do you know the difference between a one-year-old baby and a 15-year-old think about it it’s massive somebody’s been doing something like legit in business and people don’t realize like 8-year-olds start businesses now so you might meet somebody that’s 21 that’s absolutely
(21:17) crushing it but they’ve been doing it for a decade and you just started and you’re going to beat yourself up over it you’re going to feel bad about not being further along there’s nothing to compare about there’s nothing to compare to you are not them they are not you you are living your own Journey your own existence your own reality and if you allow yourself to just be okay with that and have some Grace it’ll actually make you feel a lot better I don’t focus on other people I focus on me I focus on who I was yesterday and am I better
(21:43) today that I can control can’t control the weather I can’t control the politics I can’t control the people around me think about it every time you drive you trust the person on the other side of the lane to not cross the lane and smash your head on right like I don’t control a lot of stuff but I control me and and I choose not to compare my journey at whatever level I’m at whatever entrepreneural age I’m at to somebody else’s further along so for what it’s worth if you look at where I’m at I’ve been doing this for 27 years it’s not
(22:12) even that impressive imagine what you could do in 10 years 20 years 30 years if you went all in on you but it’s going to require consistency if you want to learn the 44 cheat codes I know at 44 that I wish I knew at 24 click the link and I’ll see you on the other side