I run multiple businesses, $100M a year, sh*t breaking and changing all the time…
…but I’m still home for dinner every night with the family.
That’s not luck. That’s design.
Most entrepreneurs think late nights are the cost of ambition.
But that’s actually the cost of a broken calendar.
The truth? You can win AND still have a life.
Because success doesn’t require longer hours. It requires a better time system.
Here’s how to do it:
STEP 1 : Design Around Energy, Not Hours
Time is never the constraint. ENERGY is.
The question you should ask yourself: What are you spending it on?
My week is colour-blocked by energy type:
- Deep Work (Red blocks): 8 am – 12 pm Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Zero meetings. Zero Slack. This is where the real work happens.
- People Time (Yellow blocks): All meetings, calls, coaching sessions stacked on Tuesday and Thursday. Batched. Never scattered.
- Admin/Catch-up (Blue blocks): Friday afternoons. The stuff that HAS to get done but doesn’t need my best brain.
- Protected Time (Green blocks): Workouts, family dinners, date nights. On the calendar. Non-negotiable.
When you design this way, Monday morning turns from panic to playbook.
STEP 2: Install the Guardrails
Design means nothing if you don’t protect it.
Guardrails are the rules that keep time from leaking during your week.
Here’s mine:
- No meeting before 10 am. My first 2 hours belong to me. Every single day.
- All meetings have a default of 20 minutes. If it needs more, we extend. But we START at 20.
- No same-day meeting requests. Everything gets booked 24 hours out minimum.
“No” is a complete sentence. If it doesn’t fit a red, yellow, or green block, it doesn’t get in.
These aren’t suggestions.
They’re the fence around your most valuable asset. Your time.
STEP 3: Run the Sunday Reset (30 minutes)
Every Sunday, I sit down for 30 minutes and do the same thing.
- Review the week ahead, fill in any blanks, flag any conflicts
- Pick my top 3 outcomes for the week
- Clear the inbox backlog from Friday so Monday starts clean
That’s the whole system.
Energy blocks that protect your best work.
Guardrails that keep the chaos out.
And resets that start each with momentum.
The 1% don’t have more hours than you.
They just stopped pretending that a full calendar means a productive one.
-DM
P.S. If you need to take control of your time fast, my Perfect Week template is where to start.
A system that doesn’t just give you more time. It gives you energy and space for what matters.
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